how to change your life for the better
Wondering how to change your life for the better and achieve inner peace and satisfaction?
Well, I never knew that the only thing I needed to do, in other to change my life for the better- from a bitter, angry lady -to a joyful, happy, calmer woman, was to change my behavior!
If you feel unhappy with your life right now, feel depressed, and wonder how to change your life for the better, here is the simple story of how I changed my life for the better.
The year was 2019 November.
Married with two little kids-that kept me busy all day, I had no Job or sustainable source of income, and one thing was certain in my life- I was very unhappy with my life and relationship (Marriage).
I never went in search of ‘how to change your life for the better’ tutorials on the internet because, for me, there was no need for that search.
I thought the pain and frustration in my life were caused by the people around me.
However, one fateful day, I went into my bathroom to have my bath and suddenly I had an ‘aha moment.
“What if I was the Problem”.
Now, for the first time, It occurred to me, that ‘I might actually be the problem’! Maybe I needed to change myself.
What? Me, the problem?
The fact that I could be the problem was difficult for me to admit at first.
However, thankfully, I was sincere with myself. ‘What if, I was the problem after all and not my husband or the people around me? I wondered silently.
I Kneeled on my bathroom floor and in all humility, asked God to help me change.
It was a simple but genuine prayer from my heart. Because, for the first time, I felt I might hold the key to my happiness.
The realization that; I needed to change my life-not the people around me was the beginning of my transformation.
Hence, I moved from self-pity and self-pride to recognizing my faults and need for better me-for self-improvement.
Right in my bathroom, I saw the person I wanted to become. Here was the picture: My better self would be a gentle, loving, caring, patient, people-centered individual. One whose kids loved and respected.
Not the easily angered, forceful, and impatient mother and wife I was. I never knew this was how to change my life for the better.
What followed next were a series of events, I believe the Universe arranged in my favor- to help me change and experience the joy of living.
I would continue the events that unfolded in my life; how to change your life for the better by transforming from within in my next series.
Meanwhile, feel free to check out this post on how to become better in life– to get a clearer view of how to begin the journey of personal transformation
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