Looking for a guide on how to be happy in marriage?
Well, what if I told you, that you hold the key to your happiness in the marriage relationship?
In this post, you will learn the one skill that helped me find happiness in my marriage and how you can apply it to become happier in your marriage.
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How To Be Happy In Marriage; My Story
My life has been an interesting one and I think people – especially couples or young people who would get married someday may learn a thing or two from my story.
I got married in 2014. After That,
I Lost My Happiness!
About two years later, I stopped being happy.
Funny but, marriage almost broke me into pieces.
It wasn’t funny.
But all along I thought I was right, not knowing I had zero emotional intelligence and relationship skills.
If you are looking for how to be happy in marriage, then consider your emotional maturity level.
How often do you forgive? Do you love people unconditionally?
How To Be Happy In Marriage; My Epiphany
Things turned around for me when I had an epiphany in my bathroom.
I heard ‘ what if you are wrong ‘.
I wanted to argue but I listened.
After a little introspection and I saw how unkind, impatient and unforgiving I was.
Could Love Be The Answer?
At that instant, I knew that life could be a lot happier If I had a little more Love for myself and others; for my hubby, kids, and people around me.
How To Be Happy In Mariage; I Worked On Myself
It took me months and even years of practicing self-love and unconditional love for others to gradually change myself from the ‘hard’ woman to a friendlier, forgiving, and happy woman.
What Did I Do Differently?
The first step I took to be happy in my marriage was to learn to love unconditionally.
People; your spouse, kids, in-laws, and siblings would offend you.
Make up your mind to forgive them and love them regardless.
This Love Code Changed It All For Me; ‘People dont have to earn my love’.
Think about it for a minute.
People don’t have to earn your love, make excuses for their offense, and live happily!
How To Be Happy in Mariage; Love Yourself & Others Unconditionally
To be happy in marriage or any relationship, you must be emotionally intelligent and mature.
That means you make up your mind to love people regardless of who they are, or what they do.
However, it’s okay to let go of a relationship if it is not beneficial. But, always give it your ‘love shot’.
The result? It’s Been Emotionally Rewarding.
I became happier in marriage and my relationships with people.
How Did I Do it?
After months of practically reminding myself to love unconditionally.
This simple discovery led to this blog where I am committed to helping people learn emotional maturity and social/relationship skill that is so lacking in relationships.
I Haven’t Worn A Trophy, But I Won Peace!
If how to be happy in marriage is your biggest quest right now, learn from my story.
Learn to love people unconditionally.
I am still unknown with not too many awards, but, it’s been a fruitful journey for me personally.
How To Be Happy in Marriage; Conclusion
To be happy in marriage or life, it is important, that you develop a social-emotional skillset.
And that is what this blog has tried to explain in simple terms using a practical case study of the writer.
If you have any questions or would like to learn further about emotional Intelligence and how you can apply it in marriage, feel free to reply in the comment session.
Love from me.
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